Begging for Help

This year has left many people in need. And, as I sit at a traffic light in my city, I notice more people begging for help on the corner. They hold signs asking for help. Some say things like, “Unemployed, need food” or “Wife sick, need help” I am sure all of us encounter such scenes around our cities and towns. But, begging for help is getting more commonplace, especially with the effects of COVID on our society. What do you do when you see someone asking for help?

Begging

Someone called into a Christian radio station this morning to say they had recently given money to a person begging. Now they feel guilty because they were not sure if that was that the right thing to do. Also, the caller worried about what the man would do with the money she gave him. Do we judge those begging as undeserving of our help?

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Many people I talked with over the years have strong opinions on this subject. Some of the arguments include that they will probably just buy drugs or alcohol with the money I give them. Or another one is that they are capable of working, and they are just being lazy. But, are these arguments just excuses to get us off the hook of helping others? As Christians, what is our responsibility towards those we see begging in the streets of our cities?

Helping Others

Let’s turn to the authority on this topic, our Bible. Many verses in the Bible talk about poverty and about helping others. The one that I think address this question most directly is found in the gospel of Matthew:

“Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.”

Matthew 5:42

I don’t think it gets much more direct than that verse. But most of us are still concerned about the motives of those begging for help. When we do not give because of our perception of how the person will use the money, we become judge and jury. We think we know their motives, and we do not want to contribute to their bad choices in life. So we do not give. 

Begging Motives

But, it is only Jesus that knows the true motives of the heart. I believe there are times when the Lord presses it upon my heart to give to a particular homeless person, and that is when I give. I think the Lord’s prompting needs to be our driving force in giving to those begging for help. 

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God knows the heart and motives of those begging, and I have to rely on Him to direct me. I also can give items instead of money. For example, in the hot weather, I carry unopened water bottles in my car to hand out. Another example includes making up bags of toiletries to hand out. I believe I am called to help those the Lord shows to me and not judge them. And, if I don’t give when the Lord directs me, then I will be held accountable someday for my actions. When we do donate to someone, we should give with a joyful heart and not grumble, as shown in the Bible verse below:

“Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

2 Corinthians 9:7

Missing Out

Several other Bible verses show us what we might be missing out on if we do not help those that the Lord directs us to help. In Hebrews, we find that sometimes that beggar may not be whom they seem to be:

“Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!”

Hebrews 13:2

That person begging for help might be an angel in disguise. And, if the Lord directs me to help someone and I do not, then someday when I get to heaven, I might hear the Lord speak these words found in Matthew to me directly:

“42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me. 45 He will reply, Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.”

Matthew 25:42-45

Be Generous

I understand that not everyone begging for help is in actual need of help. Not every one begging for help is homeless or helpless. But, as Christians, our responsibility is to rely on God. So, if God directs you to give to someone standing on a street corner, you should give and not think about it again. Let God be their judge. In this year of COVID, let’s be extra generous this Christmas season. 

Prayer

God, thank you for the abundance of life, relationships, health, comfort, and wealth you have provided, and thank you that even in times of need, despair, and brokenness, you are there. Please, put your arms around children and families in extreme poverty, so they feel comfort and hope; meet their needs both physically and spiritually. And, Lord, guide me so I can be your hands and feet pursuing justice for the poor and upholding the cause of the needy. Amen

Blessings,

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47 thoughts on “Begging for Help

  1. mimionlife – Writer of inspirational messages, sometimes laced with humor.
    mimionlife

    I used to worry about what people did with the money my family gave. Then, I remembered. My place is not to judge. My place is to show God’s love to everyone. Great message Yvonne.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks Melissa. We are called to love and help. We are so quick to judge those who need help. Thanks for sharing and God bless

  2. So good. Often we get an “us” vs. “them” mentality when serving others… we think “we” are helping “them” or serving “them.” But it’s an honor to serve others. Thinking of it as “serving with” or “in ministry with” helps me wrap my head around this concept.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      It is the best way of thinking about it. So many do think of it as us vs them when we are all God’s children. Thanks Jessica and God bless.

  3. Ava Pennington – Bible study teacher, speaker, and author of Daily Reflections on the Names of God: A Devotional.
    Ava Pennington

    Thank you for these reminders to give and not to judge. And when we do have legitimate concerns about giving money, I especially like the aspects of helping with practical items, too.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      We just need to remember to give to those in need as God commanded. Thanks Ava and God bless.

  4. Nancy E. Head – United States – Writer and teacher Nancy E. Head was a single mother with five children under the age of 14 when she attended Penn State to earn a bachelor’s degree in English and was elected to Phi Beta Kappa. Her career took a journalistic turn from radio news to newspaper reporting, then education before she returned to the classroom to secure a master’s degree in English from Indiana University of Pennsylvania. Currently an instructor at Penn State Altoona and Great Commission Schools, she also spent two summers teaching English in Asia and is a Distinguished Toastmaster. When not teaching or writing, she restores antique quilts, crafts projects for her grandchildren, and helps her husband lead a small group at their church devoted to ministering to the needy in their community.
    Nancy E. Head

    It’s even more important this year to remember those around us who are in need. Great post!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks Nancy. This year has left so many more people in need this year. Thanks and God bless.

  5. Melissa McLaughlin – From an early age, the beauty of nature and love of family pointed me to One who is greater, the Creator and Lover of my soul, Jesus. My writing is inspired by His Word and His Spirit. During the most desperate times of my life, I learned to use scripture prayers to be my voice when I had no voice. To find out more about my passionate prayer journey, check out my book "In Dark of Times When Words Fail, Voice of Jesus Pray for Me." Follow along and join me in this journey of loving Jesus!
    Melissa McLaughlin

    Such an important reminder, Yvonne. For some time, I traveled a certain route with several people begging on the corners. So I packed paper bags with food, water and hygiene supplies. I kept them in a plastic bin in my car. So whenever I saw someone begging, I passed them a ready-made bag of supplies. For those who are torn about what to do, this may be a small way to show that you see and are willing to help. Not everyone has cash in their wallets anymore, so this helps with that situation, as well..
    One word of consideration, recently in our area, a woman was stabbed to death through the window of her car when she offered to give cash to a man begging by the roadside. My kids were upset because they knew that could have been me. We do need to trust God in all things, even in the face of death. May we pray for His wisdom and leading in this and all things.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Yes, of course, good advice. I always pray for God’s wisdom in how I help others and trust Him to lead. There are so many ways to help. Thanks Melissa and God bless

  6. If God is nudging us to give to someone in need, it’s best to trust God and not worry about whether the person receiving the gift will use it well or not. Why people are in the situation they are in is not our problem; what God calls us to do is love. Not everyone will do what is right with the gift given, but everyone can be loved regardless. We remember that when we were yet sinners, Christ still died for us. Not all of us have received his gift of salvation, but the sacrifice was still made and offer still stands.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Amen Marcie. It is the gift of love that God gives so freely that we should be as generous also. Thanks and God bless

  7. Melinda Viergever Inman – earth – Raised on the Oklahoma plains in a storytelling family, Melinda now spins tales from her writer's cave in the South. Her fiction illustrates our human story, wrestling with our brokenness and the storms that wreak havoc in our lives. Find her at http://melindainman.com.
    Melinda Viergever Inman

    Yvonne, this is a superb post! So powerful! You’ve spelled out the thought processes that every Christian should go through when approaching someone in need. The sermon Jesus gave near the end of his life is downright terrifying, for The Parable of the Sheep and the Goats informs us that if we ignore the needy, we’re probably not a believer. That should scare us into action, if we haven’t already acted out of love for the Savior. The Lord has a mission for each of us, and sometimes simply handing someone some water is what is required. This is not something small. It is of great significance. Letting the Lord direct us is good advice. The parable tells us many of the needs that we are called upon to meet – hungry, sick, in prison, thirty. There are many needs.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      And the need is increasing because of the virus. I think another way we can make a difference is with our tipping too because they might be struggling. I am always surprised when wait staff or delivery people complain about how poorly Christian’s tip. We should be known as the most generous in all ways. Thanks and God bless.

  8. Fresh insight on this often controversial discussion, Yvonne. I agree with your perspective to ask the Lord and the Holy Spirit to speak to us and give us discernment. For years, I’ve been asking the Lord for divine appointments throughout any given day. Around my neighborhood and especially running errands or driving to appointments. If I see someone with a sign and I feel the tug on my heart, I turn around and go back. And besides giving money, sometimes I go in a local place and buy food, etc. Sometimes I feel led to just hand them cash.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Amen Karen. Thanks fir your thoughtful insights. God bless.

  9. This is a hard situation because as Christians we are called to be good stewards of what God has given us, so that does come with responsibility. But we are also told not to judge others. Fortunately, God knows the hearts and can give us wisdom and discernment!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Yes God will direct us to the right decision in His name. Thanks and God bless

  10. This is a time to not only look after ourselves but to look after others too. And for many, when we are helping others, it really makes us feel better too.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Yes it does help all those involved and so many need help in these days. Thanks Sacha and God bless.

  11. Such a timely reminder – thank you Yvonne for your insights. I love the idea of keeping water bottles and toiletry packs in the car to hand out especially when you’re concerned the gift of money may not be used in the way intended. I know some buy hot drinks or sandwiches to hand out which seems a good idea too.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      I think the need is so much greater this year because of COVID-19. God wants us to help others, especially at the holidays. There are so many ways to make a difference. Thanks for your comments Helen and God bless.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks so much. God bless.

  12. I have had friends tell me that I shouldn’t give because of the same reason, the homeless person will use the money for drinking or drugs. But I believe that the act of giving is never cancelled out by the receiver’s misuse of the gift. Thank you for this beautiful eye opening post! Loved it!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks so much Donna. I think for some people, it makes them feel better to have a reason not to give. But, God’s word tells us something very different. Thanks for commenting and God bless.

  13. This is so true! I agree we should always help out people in need because if it was us we would want people to do the same and not question our motives. It is not up to us to question what they will do with it but instead just give.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks Tona. So many people are in need especially this year. We must set the example for the world to follow. God bless.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thank you so much Summer. I really appreciate your comment. God bless you.

  14. Sheryl Mendoza – Philippines – Amazing, smart, sophisticated and fun!
    Sheryl Mendoza

    Hi, Yvonne! I love this post so much! Give with a cheerful heart and let God do the judging! Thank you for the wonderful reminder!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      It is so important for Christians to be thought of as generous just like God is with us. Matthew 5:42 is so clear about it. Thanks Sheryl for commenting. God bless.

  15. Paul & Kristie – Nigeria – Authors @ www.paulkristie.com (a blog on Christian living and lifestyle)
    Kristie

    Thanks so much for this message. We need to demonstrate our love for others by helping and giving. We are not to consider others undeserving of our help. God bless you for this reminder.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      They will know we are Christians by our love. Thanks Kristie and God bless

  16. I loved this, Yvonne. So good, clear, concise, and biblically supported.
    It is a challenging situation – making decisions about whether or not to help people on street corners for all the reasons you say. Your quoting Matthew 5:42 does sum up Jesus’ instructions about it. I have come to think about the situation this way: If they are truly in need, then I should be compassionate and help. If they are not truly in need, if they could be working, etc., then I still should have compassionate because there is something broken about standing on a street corner and begging if you don’t have real need.
    My favorite verse on sharing with those begging or the poor in other situations is Proverbs 19:10,
    “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay them in full.”

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      That is another wonderful verse. Our human hearts want to make the situation challenging but God wants us to be compassionate in all circumstances. Thanks for adding your thoughts Pam. God bless.

  17. We live in a small midwestern town and rarely see people asking for help on the side of the road, but there was someone near Walmart last week and it started me thinking. Your post was totally in line with what God was impressing on my heart. Such a confirmation. Thank you!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Amen. We do need to seek the Lord’s guidance on such matters and His words seems to make it very clear on how we should respond. Stay safe and God bless

  18. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
    Yvonne Morgan

    Thank you Heather. I appreciate your encouragement. God bless

  19. So wise! Your statement “if God directs you to give to someone standing on a street corner, you should give and not think about it again” is spot on. Such a great post. Thanks!

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      So many people are struggling this year. I feel this is a time for Christians who are able help others. Thanks for commenting and God bless.

  20. Betty Rojugbokan – Betty is a Cybersecurity specialist who loves God and likes encouraging others in their Christian walk. She is the Chief Editor of AllRoundJesus.com and you can read more about Betty on the site's About page.
    Betty

    This is a great topic, my approach has always been to allow God lead me, and when in doubt, I give material things instead of money.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Amen my sister. That is a wonderful approach to the situation. Thank you and God bless.

  21. Thank you for this post. It is a touchy and difficult subject at times in how to handle a person begging in a Godly manner. My husband is an Anglican minister and we had to establish a policy of directing people to our St. Vincents de Paul ministry because we were being abused over our givings. We would give what little we have and find it thrown away down the road because it wasn’t what the person wanted. Meanwhile we went without the luxury that we had given away. However we keep extra coats in our car for anyone we come across on the streets that may need one. Unfortunately in Ireland we have crime gangs that ‘set up’ people to beg on the street- so the genuine person needing help can get missed.

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      So very sorry to hear of the struggles. It can be hard to find the genuine person in need. Sometimes God call us to help someone in the street who is not in genuine need because He wants them to learn about love. God’s ways can be hard for us to understand

  22. Agent X – The streets – Agent X is a street prophet and minister to the homeless. In April 2013 a group of street-homeless men came together and formed the Fat Beggars School of Prophets as a way of serving Jesus, the church, and the homeless in our community. Our mission statement: We go to the place of shame, pain, and despair in our community, and we bear the image of God there.
    Agent X

    I want to say THANX for blogging about this… especially with an open-minded critical thinking approach.

    This kind of stuff is important to me too. I write and talk about these matters frequently. Please let me invite you and your readers to further conversation on this and related topics. Here are a couple links I would love to share:

    https://fatbeggars.wordpress.com/2019/09/22/heavens-hospitality/

    https://fatbeggars.wordpress.com/2019/06/17/rambling-on-and-on-about-hospitality/

    https://fatbeggars.wordpress.com/2019/10/18/strangers-angels/

    1. Yvonne – I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I am also a grandmother. I am passionate about missions and writing about the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my journey. God led me to set up a charity, which cares for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.
      Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks for sharing

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